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When to Hold 'Em.
As soon as you walk into the room and spot a person, go introduce yourself. You do not need to wait for someone to introduce you.
Once you've introduced yourself begin questioning the person. Ask what they do. Give them a chance to tell you all about their business. Ask what brought them to this event. Search for things you have in common.
Do not ask personal questions, such as: Are you married? Do you have children?
If someone walks up, introduce yourself and your new friend. Tell the new person a little about the two of you and what you were talking about. Bring that new person into the conversation.
As you begin to draw the conversation to a close, if the other person has not asked for your card, ask for theirs. That may stimulate them to ask for yours. Do not give someone your card unless they have asked for it.
When to Fold 'Em. After no more than 10 minutes and preferably 5 minutes leave the conversation.
If you notice the person you're talking to saying less or their eyes darting around the room, excuse yourself gracefully, even if you have not been talking 5 minutes. Do not leave the person standing alone. Instead, offer to take them with you to join another group.
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Networking, like everything else we do, takes practice.? Try these tips and see if it's a bit easier for you the next time you enter that proverbial crowded room.