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What To Do When Your Honeys Friends Do Not Like You
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The best thing you can do when you pick up on vibes that the friends don't like you is to simply be nice. Be yourself, but always put your best foot [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] forward. When they are nasty toward you, you can respond in kind or you can keep things really cordial and friendly. As the saying goes, you can kill them with kindness. Eventually they will either warm up to you or your honey will see the problem and act on it for you.
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Just keep reaching out and give it time, eventually you will either have to start getting along or they'll have to back off! But when you do this you are allowed to be the good guy instead of the bad guy, which is important if you want to keep dating the same [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] person.
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