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This article is a shortened excerpt from the book "Tiger by the Tail" available at
Tiger by the Tail is the story of my personal recovery from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. This is not a scholarly work; it is a memoir. I have no credentials as a health care professional, nor am I a layperson who has done exhaustive research.
So much for what [url=http://www.mxitcms.com/abercrombie/]abercrombie milano[/url] I am not. What I am, is a survivor of OCD--who has recovered. I wrote this book for others who would also be survivors and who would find the tools that they need to do so. It is also for those who love, wish to help, or live with someone who is afflicted with this disorder.
When I was still living under the spell of OCD I felt various lines of power in the world. To be honest, I still feel them. Yet now I do not react to them or even fully believe in them. I have ignored them for years [url=http://www.sandvikfw.net/shopuk.php]hollister sale[/url] and the only result is that I do not bang into things as much as before. If I walked on this side of that object, I would be in harmony with that power, if I walked on the other side I would not. Something would happen. I had no idea what, just something. Other times I knew what would happen.
I heard that old nursery rhyme about "step on a crack, break your mother's back." I did not step on a crack for decades without panic and I avoided it at almost all costs. In my fear, my mother's back was also somehow tied to the way I handled a bar of soap. I would have to run it around and around in my hand in the correct direction, rinsing it off repeatedly. I could not put it back unless it was placed exactly "right" on the dish. I would have to redo this ritual many times. I believed that her back would break or be damaged if I failed this somehow.
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First View: A rational approach. I can remember my mother [url=http://www.sandvikfw.net/shopuk.php]hollister outlet sale[/url] having to stop while walking in order to squat in the street to relieve her back pain when I was 10 years old. My mother was diagnosed with sciatica, [url=http://www.ilyav.com/uggsoldes.php]ugg pas cher[/url] (a pinching of the nerves of the lower back) around that time, and I knew this. Her mother wore a special back brace through most of her later years and I do not believe that I ever saw her bend. So, it is obvious to me that my mind knew my mother's back was fragile and had developed this fear long before it developed the ritual. The ritual was a response to the fear. Her eventual serious event was the result of a life long disease. I saw it coming and tried my impotent best to stop it. It did not work.
Second View: A magical approach, the perspective of the ritual. Whether her back trouble was the result of her life long problem or a result of my stopping the protective ritual is completely irrelevant. I say now, and with my mother's full agreement, that it is better that her back be broken than that I, her child, live as a slave. We have discussed this and she has told me this herself. I would give my life for the freedom of my loved ones, [url=http://www.thehygienerevolution.com/barbourparis.php]barbour paris[/url] and she feels this way no less than I. Therefore, even if my ritual was protecting her, it was destroying her baby, and that was a price she was not willing to pay for any protection, imagined or real.
In my mind, I was trying to prevent the worst from happening but I failed to see that the worst had already happened. I had become a slave. No slave ever won freedom without risk. For too many years, I lived with unclear fears, and all too clear fears. The magic that I had hoped to control with walking on the correct side of things and jumping over cracks, may be real or may be imagined. But, you see, it just doesn't matter a bit. Nothing is worse than the slavery of being controlled by unnamed thoughts and [url=http://www.mquin.com/gzparis.php]giuseppe zanotti[/url] fears to the point that you cannot [url=http://www.achbanker.com/hollister.php]hollister france[/url] even stop yourself from hurting yourself, as performing the ritual so clearly is doing. Slavery is slavery. There can be only one response, rebellion and freedom.
My hope was to protect her from what I feared for her. It did not work. It does not work. It cannot work. Even if the magic is real, I am here to tell you it is ineffectual. It prevents nothing and it steals you from yourself. Nothing can be won or protected at the cost of your very self.
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